So Danny put his leave chit in today to see if he can get it so I can go to see Kim in CA but my mom is throwing a huge fit. She doesn't think I should go and leave the kids here with Danny. Because I am with them all the time she doesn't think he can take care of them. I was like WTF!?!?! It's so annoying that she is such a downer but I am not listening to her I am going to go anyway if Danny gets leave. If Danny didn't think he could handle it he would tell me and he said it's fine for me to go and things would be cool. So now I get to listen to her when I talk to her until after I get back and she sees things are fine. UGHHH why do families suck sometimes? It's like I get to have no fun or a life or anything b/c I am a mom and that is not the case. I know I will miss them but I need time away and when Danny goes back to sea duty he will be gone and I will take care of the kids with no help. I don't see what the difference is really between him and me. Once she saw the guilt card wasn't going to work she tried the well we were "thinking" of coming to see you around that time. She then said for her birthday which isn't till the 15th anyway I told her she was lieing she didn't admit to it but I know she was. Then she started on "aren't you afraid to fly" Umm no not really. I finally got off the phone. UGHHHHHHH! It's neverending and she is so freaking negative about everything it drives me crazy sometimes it really does and today is one of those days I guess.
I'm so sorry she is being a downer. Don't let her get to you. hugs!
ReplyDeleteTrisha, don't let her play the cards. You keep to your guns. Danny can handle things just as well as you do. He needs to take time to care for his own children. He can do it, I am pretty sure that he will pull on his big boy undies and take care of the kids. The house will still be standing, the dog and kids will still be in one peice. GO GO GO...take a vacation!!! You need it and so does Kim!
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